閉口頓首 へいこうとんしゅ being at a complete loss as to what to do; being at one's wit's end; being at a loss for an answer n vs yoji Advanced ➥
鶏口牛後 けいこうぎゅうご better to be the beak of a rooster than the rump of a bull; better to be the leader of a small group than a subordinate in a large organization; better to be a big fish in a little pond than a little fish in a big pond exp yoji Advanced ➥