人の蠅を追うより己の蠅を追え ひとのはえをおうよりおのれのはえをおえ take care of yourself before you take care of others; wave off your own flies before you wave off somebody else's flies exp proverb Advanced ➥
人の噂も七十五日 ひとのうわさもしちじゅうごにち ひとのうわさもななじゅうごにち a wonder lasts but nine days; gossip lasts just 75 days exp proverb Advanced ➥