取っ組む とっくむ to grapple with; to wrestle with; to engage in a bout; to be matched against v5m vi to tackle (e.g. a problem); to come to grips with; to work hard on v5m vi Advanced ➥
損して得取れ そんしてとくとれ you must lose a fly to catch a trout; sometimes the best gain is to lose exp proverb Advanced ➥